{"id":33377,"date":"2025-09-02T19:11:28","date_gmt":"2025-09-02T11:11:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vman-sea.com\/uncategorized-vi\/ban-la-kieu-nam-gioi-bieu-dien-nao-dua-tren-cuon-sach-ban-chon\/"},"modified":"2026-06-19T21:08:23","modified_gmt":"2026-06-19T13:08:23","slug":"ban-la-kieu-nam-gioi-bieu-dien-nao-dua-tren-cuon-sach-ban-chon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vman-sea.com\/vi\/nghe-thuat-van-hoa\/ban-la-kieu-nam-gioi-bieu-dien-nao-dua-tren-cuon-sach-ban-chon\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u nam gi\u1edbi bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n n\u00e0o, d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Nam gi\u1edbi bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n \u2018\u0111\u1ecdc\u2019 g\u00ec?<\/h2>\n\n

D\u1ea5u ngo\u1eb7c k\u00e9p tr\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u00fd – nh\u01b0 t\u00ean g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a anh ta, nam gi\u1edbi bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang \u2018di\u1ec5n\u2019 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n phong c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 ho\u1eb7c ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 kh\u00ed ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. <\/p>\n\n

B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, hay r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n phi\u1ebfm? Ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1eef quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch n\u00f3 cho ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef? B\u1ea1n th\u1eadt may m\u1eafn – \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 danh s\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc cho m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n: <\/p>\n\n

\u2018t\u00f4i coi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng <\/strong>qu\u00e1<\/em><\/strong> nghi\u00eam t\u00fac.\u2019<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n
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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 lu\u00f4n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 \u2018t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u2019 v\u00e0 tr\u00edch d\u1eabn Albert Camus ho\u1eb7c Fyodor Dostoyevsky \u0111\u1ec3 minh h\u1ecda r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 v\u00f4 l\u00fd, v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ef1 m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c. <\/p>\n\n

Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, anh ta v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9ng minh (trong \u0111\u1ea7u anh ta) r\u1eb1ng anh ta gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. <\/p>\n\n

Danh s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a anh ta: T\u1ed9i \u00e1c v\u00e0 H\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t, Anh em nh\u00e0 Karamazov <\/em>(Fyodor Dostoyevsky, t\u00ean tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ee7 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng); Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1, Huy\u1ec1n tho\u1ea1i Sisyphus <\/em>(Albert Camus, bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 l\u00fd)<\/p>\n\n

\u2018t\u00f4i quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1eef quy\u1ec1n!\u2019<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n
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Anh ta quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, v\u00ec anh ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc (ho\u1eb7c \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdc) cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Beyonc\u00e9 tr\u00edch d\u1eabn trong m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y tr\u00edch d\u1eabn c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, th\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 n\u1eef quy\u1ec1n quan tr\u1ecdng… \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng? (Anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edb ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 t\u00ean c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 v\u0103n, ngay c\u1ea3 khi anh ta c\u00f3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch.) <\/p>\n\n

Danh s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a anh ta: Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef quy\u1ec1n <\/em>(Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie), v\u00ec l\u00fd do r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng; Gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh th\u1ee9 hai <\/em>(Simone de Beauvoir); Chi\u1ebfc chu\u00f4ng th\u1ee7y tinh <\/em>(Sylvia Plath)<\/p>\n\n

\u2018t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.\u2019<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n
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Anh ta nh\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u. Ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 anh ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 t\u00ednh linh ho\u1ea1t v\u00e0 t\u00ednh t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac. (Tr\u1edb tr\u00eau thay, anh ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh m\u00e0n tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac.) <\/p>\n\n

Danh s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a anh ta: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a anh ta <\/em>(Carl Jung, v\u00ec Sigmund Freud l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng); R\u1eafc r\u1ed1i gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh <\/em>(Judith Butler, v\u00ec hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.)<\/p>\n\n

\u2018t\u00f4i th\u1ee9c d\u1eady l\u00fac 4 gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y.\u2019<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n
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V\u00e2ng, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u r\u1ed3i: anh ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean t\u1eed, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y… \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt th\u00fa v\u1ecb, khi xem x\u00e9t r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ng\u1ed3i trong m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1n c\u00e0 ph\u00ea l\u00e0n s\u00f3ng th\u1ee9 ba trong m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd trong khi \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn Elon Musk d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. (C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c 20 gi\u1edd c\u1ee7a anh ta.) <\/p>\n\n

Danh s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a anh ta: Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt chi\u1ebfn tranh <\/em>(T\u00f4n T\u1eed, v\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi anh ta); Th\u00f3i quen nguy\u00ean t\u1eed (James Clear, v\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed1i \u01b0u h\u00f3a qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c); B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi l\u00fd do <\/em>(Simon Sinek; v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch, anh ta n\u00f3i)<\/p>\n\n

\u2018t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ng\u00e1ch.\u2019<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n
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Anh ta th\u1ea3 t\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh – c\u00e0ng m\u1edd nh\u1ea1t v\u00e0 c\u00e0ng xa r\u1eddi th\u1eddi gian hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. B\u1edfi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u2018T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 v\u0103n h\u00f3a!\u2019 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tinh t\u1ebf h\u01a1n l\u00e0 tham kh\u1ea3o c\u00e1c bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 t\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t bia m\u1ed9. <\/p>\n\n

Danh s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a anh ta: b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec do Haruki Murakami vi\u1ebft, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, v\u00ec t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch r\u1eafc c\u00e1c b\u00e0i h\u00e1t c\u1ee7a The Beatles ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec m\u00e0 Chet Baker ho\u1eb7c Duke Ellington \u0111\u00e3 thu \u00e2m v\u00e0o s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd anh ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi R\u1eebng Na Uy <\/em>v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh 1Q84. <\/p>\n\n

H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cung c\u1ea5p b\u1edfi Riot Hill x Tatras, AMIRI, Zegna, Will Chavarria, Wooyoungmi<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n